Glamour: 5 Relationship Red Flags to Look for Early in a Relationship
Have you ever looked back on a relationship after a breakup and felt you should've seen the end coming sooner? Of course you have—it's way easier to spot all of the relationship red flags once you're actually out of the relationship. Still, relationship experts say there are often signs that spell trouble that you can catch early on. Here's what to look for to save yourself the heartache. Name-calling It's one thing to be angry with your partner and another to hear "You're so stupid!" when you're fighting, says Maria Bruce, a licensed mental health counselor. This typically indicates a lack of respect from one or both parties. This is a major relationship red flag, especially if you haven't been dating that long.

Have you ever looked back on a relationship after a breakup and felt you should’ve seen the end coming sooner? Of course you have—it’s way easier to spot all of the relationship red flags once you’re actually out of the relationship. Still, relationship experts say there are often signs that spell trouble that you can catch early on. Here’s what to look for to save yourself the heartache.

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It’s one thing to be angry with your partner and another to hear “You’re so stupid!” when you’re fighting, says Maria Bruce, a licensed mental health counselor. This typically indicates a lack of respect from one or both parties. This is a major relationship red flag, especially if you haven’t been dating that long.

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