You might have problems trusting future partners. There are plenty of reasons to have some trust issues after a breakup, but if you were blindsided by your last one, Bruce says you might take that betrayal and fear into your future relationships. Bruce explains, “If you were head over heels over someone that seemed to reciprocate your feeling, and all of a sudden that person decides to break up with you, it is not unlikely that you might feel betrayed and blindsided. This can generate trust issues, as you might become overly guarded and afraid to open up, using this as a defense mechanism not to be hurt again.”

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Most of the people I end up working with are not struggling in any obvious way. In fact, they are typically doing well, often very

